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kiss_of_life61

Joined: 06 Feb 2010
Posts: 33

Wed Feb 17, 2010 7:13 pm  Reply with quote

Real, Christian, and Taken
Well, bad news.
It seems the guys I try to message on this site haven't been on in a while. They will message me back and say that they have already found someone.
Is this just me, or have I not met enough of you out there?
Meagan Very Happy
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Brandalf85

Joined: 27 Dec 2008
Posts: 250

Wed Feb 17, 2010 9:45 pm  Reply with quote

Re: Real, Christian, and Taken
kiss_of_life61 wrote:
Well, bad news.
It seems the guys I try to message on this site haven't been on in a while. They will message me back and say that they have already found someone.
Is this just me, or have I not met enough of you out there?
Meagan Very Happy


Hi there. Yeah, that's the problem, I suppose. Alot of people just leave for lack of finding anyone, or they DO find someone and don't bother updating the profile or letting anyone know. I have people on my friends list here who just never signed in again.
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kiss_of_life61

Joined: 06 Feb 2010
Posts: 33

Sat Feb 20, 2010 10:47 am  Reply with quote

The grand total is up to 3! Lol... Three guys who have found someone, and numerous others who have not messaged back. Rolling Eyes Well, I'm glad you did, Brandalf85!
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SpasticCoconut

Joined: 04 Jul 2008
Posts: 650

Sat Feb 20, 2010 1:15 pm  Reply with quote

Don't give up Smile
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kiss_of_life61

Joined: 06 Feb 2010
Posts: 33

Thu Mar 11, 2010 6:24 am  Reply with quote

Maybe you just need to stay on here a little longer...
I found someone, I just had to wait a bit.
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instrongspirit

Joined: 09 Mar 2010
Posts: 1

Fri Mar 12, 2010 1:46 am  Reply with quote

Very Happy Yeah I know what u mean. And it's even hard to find someone close by. Closes person to where I live is 40 miles away! By the time I get there it's time to come back!
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steve1313

Joined: 09 Mar 2010
Posts: 814

Fri Mar 12, 2010 2:11 am  Reply with quote

instrongspirit wrote:
Very Happy Yeah I know what u mean. And it's even hard to find someone close by. Closes person to where I live is 40 miles away! By the time I get there it's time to come back!


It would take me a while to travel 40 miles on my horse Shocked Be patient when you stop looking you start finding
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DreamWeaver

Joined: 09 Jan 2010
Posts: 33

Sat Mar 13, 2010 5:39 am  Reply with quote

patience is certainly the key! One i've had to learn and learn everyday.
I was fortunate to find a great man on this site 2 months into my joining this website. He, however, had been on this site for over a year before I first sent him a message. I just read the forums, old & new threads, & I came across a lot of his posts & found him very intriguing..SO, I left a message, & he replied, and we sent messages back & forth for a little while, then moved onto messenger, & voice chat, & before we knew it, we were meeting in person Smile & 1 year & 5 months later, we are still together Smile & serious Wink
we take turns meeting, he just flew here the end of Feb. for a week, that was our 3rd time together in person. I flew there(he's in Cali.) this past Aug. for 2 weeks. I'm also looking forward to flying out there again this summer:D God has truly blessed him & I.
BUT, I had one downfall before I met him here, met another guy here that was totally a mistake..he was a good guy BUT..not right for me at all. I always have to learn the hard way :/
Anywho, i'm rambling today & need sleep.
there are a lot of "idle" people on this website, that just don't care to have their profile deleted, or they just completely forget about it, or just keep it to have friends & chat.
We mustn't lose hope though, or faith..whether "the one" is here or there or somewhere, they will be known in time, when we are ready, and they are ready.
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twilightbloom

Joined: 22 Jan 2010
Posts: 42

Sat Mar 13, 2010 10:30 am  Reply with quote

I've been on many dating sites. They never seem to go anywhere. I stay here because I like to read the forums and I meet great people in the process. I can always hear some great advice on here.

I figure why get rid of this? Maybe one day someone will come along from here. but that's not my main reason for staying. It's because of all of you and hearing what you all have to say. Smile

Kelly
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christian_chick_ak

Joined: 15 Nov 2008
Posts: 145

Sat Mar 13, 2010 8:14 pm  Reply with quote

I come on here in occassion. Been on here in awhile and just come for the forums now usually. When I looked I never found anyone and when I stopped looking, never found anyone. It's easier on me to not look so that's what I'm sticking to since they seem to both have the same outcome. It's just not God's timing.
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leesw2

Joined: 09 Jun 2004
Posts: 1234

Sat Mar 13, 2010 8:35 pm  Reply with quote

twilightbloom wrote:
I've been on many dating sites. They never seem to go anywhere. I stay here because I like to read the forums and I meet great people in the process. I can always hear some great advice on here.

I figure why get rid of this? Maybe one day someone will come along from here. but that's not my main reason for staying. It's because of all of you and hearing what you all have to say. Smile

Kelly


What a great answer! That's so true, this site is not just to find a date. It's about fellowship with Christian singles and building friendships. A romantic relationship may come, but like most good things, it won't happen over night! And the price is certainly right!
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SpasticCoconut

Joined: 04 Jul 2008
Posts: 650

Sat Mar 13, 2010 8:35 pm  Reply with quote

I would not mind meeting someone on here.
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